13 Labor Comfort Techniques to Stay Calm and Supported

At How2Mom, we know that childbirth is both powerful and demanding. While medical pain relief has its place, there are also many non-medical comfort measures that can make a huge difference in your labor experience.

These labor comfort techniques are designed to help you relax, cope, and feel supported every step of the way. Whether you want to avoid medication altogether or simply need tools to complement your birth plan, here are 13 doula-approved strategies to bring more comfort to your birth. Want a complete picture to help you prep for labor? Check out our Comfort Measures for Labor Class! How2Mom Clients get 50% off.

1. Hire a Doula

We’ve witnessed countless birth stories, and one thing we know for sure: the numbers don’t lie. Families who choose to bring a doula onto their birth team consistently have smoother, more positive experiences—and the research backs it up.

Here’s what studies show about doula support:

  • 25% decrease in the risk of cesarean (and up to 39% when a doula is present)
  • 8% increase in spontaneous vaginal birth (15% with a doula)
  • 10% decrease in the use of pain medications
  • Labors shorter by an average of 41 minutes
  • 38% decrease in babies with low Apgar scores
  • 31% decrease in moms reporting dissatisfaction with their birth experience

Behind these numbers are real stories: moms who felt calmer, partners who felt supported, and babies welcomed into the world in a less stressful environment. A doula isn’t just another person in the room—they’re a steady presence who brings comfort, advocacy, and perspective when it matters most.

2. Create a Calming Atmosphere

Your environment matters. Dim lighting, music playlists, or even silence can help lower stress hormones and promote relaxation. A soothing atmosphere encourages your body to labor more effectively.

3. Massage and Touch

Massage during labor can reduce tension and redirect focus away from contractions. Whether it’s light touch, counter pressure, or simply holding hands, supportive touch helps release oxytocin—the “feel-good” hormone—promoting comfort and progress.

4. Breathing Techniques

Patterned breathing encourages relaxation of both the mind and body. By focusing on deep, rhythmic breaths, you help release tension in your pelvic floor and support cervical dilation. Many birth courses teach variations, but even simple slow breathing can be powerful.

5. Position Changes

Movement matters. Upright positions use gravity to bring your baby down, while frequent position changes help open your pelvis and encourage optimal positioning. Squatting, kneeling, or even leaning on a birth ball are all great options. We go through the positions during our childbirth ed course!

6. Aromatherapy

Essential oils like peppermint or lemon can ease nausea, while lavender promotes calm. Check with your birth location ahead of time—many hospitals and birth centers allow you to bring your own oils for labor comfort.

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  • Hands-on learning: Practice various comfort measures in a supportive environment.
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7. Hot and Cold Therapy

Heating pads can soothe back labor, while cool packs on your forehead or neck can keep you alert and refreshed. Switching between temperatures helps many birthing parents find comfort.

8. Keep Moving

Walking, swaying, or gentle dancing helps your baby descend and keeps contractions effective. Staying in bed for long periods may slow labor, so movement is one of the simplest but most effective comfort measures for labor.

9. Rest, Fuel, and Hydrate

Birth is physical work. Rest when you can, snack on light, healthy foods, and sip water or electrolyte drinks regularly. Fueling your body helps you stay strong through every stage of labor.
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10. Hydrotherapy

Water is nature’s pain reliever. Showers and baths can relax muscles, ease back labor, and help you feel mentally grounded. Many birthing people find hydrotherapy to be one of the most effective natural comfort techniques.

11. Counter Pressure and Double Hip Squeeze

Counter pressure involves steady force applied to the lower back during contractions, while the double hip squeeze eases pelvic tension. These techniques, often performed by a doula or partner, are especially helpful for back labor.

12. Labor Tools

Simple tools can provide major relief:

  • Birthing ball: encourages movement and opens the pelvis
  • Birthing stool: supports upright positions
  • Rice packs: offer soothing heat or cold therapy

These low-tech options are staples in many birth rooms.

13. Spinning Babies Techniques

Guided positioning practices like Spinning Babies help with balance, gravity, and movement to encourage optimal fetal positioning. Some of these techniques can be practiced during pregnancy to prepare your body for labor.

Final Thoughts from How2Mom

There’s no one “right” way to labor—just the way that works for you. Comfort measures for labor are not about replacing medical care but about giving you tools to feel more in control and supported through the experience.

At How2Mom, we’re here to walk alongside you, offering doula support, education, and encouragement every step of the way.

Want personalized support in using these techniques? Connect with our doula team today and let’s talk about your birth plan. Or check out our comfort measures course here.

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